“Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear – not absence of fear” ~ Mark Twain
My 2-year old likes to jump off of things. In fact, all my kids did about that age. Doesn’t matter how high it is, or what’s below, the jumping and the exhilaration far outweighs the threat of a bloody nose.
As we get older and more mature we outgrow that stuff. Sort of.
The Thrill of the Start
One of the most common things I hear from folks who set off to be their own boss is their mix of fear and excitement. Most of my entrepreneur friends love the thrill of the startup – the thrill that comes from a little fear mixed with calculated actions. Fear is the toxin in the fugu. Sometimes it’s the point.
It can also keep us from making stupid mistakes.
Fear as Your Ally
One of the greatest things I’ve learned is to work with my fear. To hold it close, as a trusted advisor, but not as a master. Sometimes an idea really sucks. Being afraid to set off down that path may actually be your gut telling you it sucks. But you have to be sure.
Learning the subtleties of your own fears is like becoming a master sommelier. To me wine is white or red – I can’t tell you what kind of cask it was in or what other fruits are in it. But I can dissect a recipe pretty well just by taste. Same senses, different focus and knowledge.
That’s how you need to look at your fear. Learn from it. Get to know it. Sense all the subtle levels and it can become one of your greatest assets. Fear is not something to be conquered, but something to be mastered.
Let it be your coach, not your dictator.